Words by Liban Ali (he/him)
For many first-generation university students, the initial adjustment might take time. Navigating an unfamiliar academic environment, getting used to new social dynamics, and dealing with high expectations can be difficult. Despite these obstacles, there is a great motivator: knowing that we are not only chasing our own objectives, but also fulfilling the dreams of our family. When we shine, they shine with us; when we go across the stage to receive our degree, they accompany us in spirit.
Our parents made tremendous sacrifices to provide us with opportunities they could only dream about. They left their familiar surroundings, faced hardships, and worked relentlessly to build a better life for us. Their strength and perseverance serve as the cornerstone for our academic path. Every late-night study session, exam, and moment of self-doubt is met with unshakable support and silent encouragement from our family.
A first-generation student's path is more than just an individual achievement; it is also a collective triumph. Our success is a monument to our families' enduring resilience and the rich cultural heritage they have passed on to us. It is a celebration of their efforts, dreams, and steadfast faith in our abilities.
In the face of adversity, our sense of purpose keeps us going. The concept of making our families proud, validating their efforts, and laying the road for future generations is a powerful drive. It reminds us that our journey is not isolated, but rather intertwined with the tales and dreams of those who came before us.
As I prepare to walk across that stage and earn my degree, I'm filled with gratitude and pride. I am grateful for the opportunities that have come my way, and I am proud of the heritage that I carry with me. This accomplishment is not all mine; it is due to my family, community, and all those who have supported and believed in me.
Remember, my fellow first-generation students, you are not alone. Your journey demonstrates your family's strength and resilience. When you accomplish, you raise not only yourself, but everyone who has walked this route beside you. Together, we are creating a brighter future that honours our heritage while inspiring future generations. Our success paves the way for others to dream big and work hard, knowing they, too, can overcome obstacles and achieve their goals. The legacy we build is not just for us but for all those who come after, showing them that with determination and support, anything is possible. The bonds we share with our families and communities are unbreakable, and are the true source of our strength and perseverance.